“My Heart Bleeds For Female Children” — Olaide Olabanji Spills

Nifemi Peters

​Veteran actor and filmmaker, Olaide Olabanji, has expressed deep-seated concerns over the long-term societal implications of celebrity social media feuds, particularly their psychological impact on the younger generation.

​Speaking in a recent interview that has since gone viral, the actor addressed the swirling controversy involving himself and Nollywood star, Mercy Aigbe, debunking claims that the friction between them was a orchestrated “prank” for digital engagement.

​When pressed on whether the trending fallout was merely a publicity stunt—a common fixture in the modern Nigerian entertainment landscape—Olabanji was firm in his rebuttal.

​“Wait! Let’s wait. Is it a prank? Because some people also do that… There is nothing like a prank here,” he stated, signaling that the issues at hand carry a weight far beyond scripted drama.

​The actor’s primary grievance, however, appeared to transcend the personal rift. He pivoted the conversation toward a “serious matter” regarding the upbringing and mental fortitude of female children in the digital age.

​Olabanji argued that the constant exposure of young girls to toxic public disputes and “mistakes” played out on screen can lead to a desensitized generation.

​“Let me just tell you that this thing can actually affect female children,” Olabanji warned during the session. “Do you know that they easily forget things? They easily forget. This thing is always in their faces. They don’t want to accept that they’ve made a mistake.”

​He suggested that his observations come from a place of deep study, noting that the visual nature of these digital conflicts can be “frustrating” for those involved and those watching.

​Adding a layer of mystery to the narrative, Olabanji referenced a conversation with a figure he identified as Bisi Ogundi. According to the actor, the matriarch reached out to him to acknowledge the gravity of the situation, further validating that the conflict is not a laughing matter.

​Olabanji emphasized that his status as a “celebrity” does not mean he should engage in every trend, especially when it involves matters that shouldn’t be discussed “on air.”

​Despite the visible tension, the interview ended on a somewhat conciliatory, albeit cautious, note. While describing the current situation as a “very serious matter,” Olabanji alluded to the possibility of a spiritual or providential resolution.

​“I’ve said it before, you and Mercy, by the grace of God, everything will be settled… because the world is already looking at you,” the guest concluded.

​As of the time of this report, Mercy Aigbe has not issued a formal response to Olabanji’s latest remarks. The development continues to stir reactions across social media platforms, with fans and industry observers divided on the true nature of the dispute.