​In the quiet, sprawling compound of Baptist Day School 1, Ajégúnlẹ̀, Igbo-Ora, the year 1975 remains etched in memory not for the lessons learned in the classroom, but for a “stinker” scrawled in ink that altered the course of a young boy’s life. It was a sacred triangle—the church, the school, and the mission house—where the rhythm of existence was dictated by the school bell and the thud of a football.

​I was in Primary 5 then, a fixture on the school’s dusty pitch long after the final bell. My obsession with the game and my close friendship with the resident minister’s son meant the school grounds were my second home. I felt safe, never imagining that my presence in the shadows of the evening would one day be used as a weapon against me.

​The tranquility of the school was shattered one morning by a scandal. A vitriolic piece of graffiti had been scrawled across a school wall—a cowardly attack filled with stinging allegations against the girls living in the mission house.

​During recess, the heavy hand of authority fell. In the Headmaster’s office, the air grew thick with accusation. “Tunji, tell me the truth,” the Headmaster barked. “The handwriting on that wall is yours. We know you stay late… we know you are fond of writing on walls. Confess now.”

​I was devastated. Tears blurred my vision as I pleaded my innocence. I would never disrespect the Reverend’s family, I argued, but my words fell on deaf ears. My habits made me the perfect scapegoat. I was punished publicly and unfairly, forced to carry a shame that was not mine to bear.

​Living on the fringes of our school life were the children of police officers who occupied a nearby bungalow-turned-barracks. They were a tough, spirited bunch—friends of mine, despite their stubborn streaks. While I served my punishment, I had my suspicions. I suspected one of the boys from the barracks; he had a certain brand of mischief in his eyes. But without proof, I could not “robe him in.” I swallowed the bitterness and let the dust settle.

​Years later, the scene shifted from the rural quiet of Igbo-Ora to the vibrant campus of Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU), Ile-Ife. It was there, amidst the buzz of young adulthood, that the truth finally caught up with the past.

​During a casual conversation, my old friend from the barracks laughed as he dropped a bombshell. “Tunji, you remember that write-up at Baptist Day?” he asked. “It was me. I wrote it. But back then? Haa! There was no way I could bail you out.”

​The irony stung even years later. Omo olopaa! The son of the law had broken it, while I, the innocent, had paid the fine.

​On a recent visit to Igbo-Ora, I walked through the old compound once more. The mission house had been pulled down, and the wall that was the site of my childhood trauma was gone—demolished by the inevitable march of time.

​The physical evidence of that “stinker” is now dust, and the anger has faded into a nostalgic tale. But standing on those grounds, I was reminded that while buildings can be razed, the memories of the lessons we learned—about friendship, betrayal, and the heavy weight of the truth—remain etched in our hearts forever.

​Tunji Ajibade, a broadcast journalist and social/literary analyst, writes from Ibadan via talogaju22@gmail.com.

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